As promised earlier, I will be revealing slowly the gorgeous silhouette and fascinating personality of one of my favourite London Dominatrixes – Goddess Alexia. I remember we met for the first time 2 years ago at the Xpo 2008, and we liked each other straight away. She also is an exhibitionist like me and we share quite similar attitiude towards Female Domination. Here is the first interview with her, specially for Marquis Magazine.
* Alexia – you describe yourself as a Goddess.
Please explain: what is the difference
between a Mistress and a Goddess for you?
Why you are so unique?
A Mistress provides professional BDSM services for her clients
who pay her to do what they want -
what she does for the client is what defines her,
and ultimately the client remains in charge
no matter what role-play may be involved.
A Goddess is a dominatrix whose effect on her clients
is so profound that they no longer think about what they want,
but instead wish only to please her
- in effect they become her worshippers.
Of course, if the Goddess is pleased by them,
she may indulge them by doing what she knows they want,
but theycan never demand it.
Why am I unique?
It should really be for others to say why,
but I have learned by experience that my effect
on my clients is always powerful and often overwhelming for them!
* Foot fetish in all characteristics is your
speciality. Why do you love these games so
much?
The relationship between Goddess and her
client that I have just described is most
powerfully expressed in foot worship – the
Goddess above, the worshipper below,
with physical contact limited to just the
feet of the Goddess, but hands, lips and
tongue of the worshipper. Feet and
footwear, especially high boots, have
always symbolized power, and in
caressing, kissing and licking my shoes,
boots and feet my worshippers are
acknowledging my power over them. I find
this deeply satisfying. Of course, I love the
physical side of it too, particularly when
my feet are massaged by someone who
knows how to do it properly.
* How long have you worked as a
Dominatrix and how did you find out that this is your way of life?
I have been working professionally in London
ever since I became adult,
and I have known from an early age that I am a dominant.
And since I love all the other aspects of my work -
the focus on feminine beauty, the clothes, the dressing up,
the role-playing, the psychology of my clients
- I cannot imagine a more attractive way to
live than just doing what I really enjoy!
* You offer a lot of different services: from
Pony games to Bondage, from Deprivation
to Feminisation. Could you tell me if you
can observe a “must have fashion trend” of
the wishes of your clients? Or is there more
a classical hit list of preferred practices?
Every client is different, and of course they
often don’t know at first what they really want.
For instance, they may come to me
because they have fantasized about being whipped by a beautiful woman,
but really they just want to have a submissive relationship with her.
Part of my work is to help them find out what their needs are
and, if they please me, to satisfy them.
I don’t think there is a common thread to these desires,
except insofar as the “vanilla” world has a very limited idea
of what happens in a BDSM relationship,
and so often comes up with the same set of initial ideas.
* How should a male or female sub be set up
when he or she has a date with you?
Be prepared to be completely open and
honest, without embarrassment, about
what brings them to me. It goes without
saying that they must be clean, polite and
respectful as well!
* In your work psychology plays an immense
role. Do you think that a good Mistress has
to be also some kind of a therapist?
A mistress who does not provide therapeutic relief for her clients
is not doing her job properly, in fact is not doing it at all.
All my clients come to me initially
because they have something lacking in
their life which I can help them to find. Not
surprisingly, it is often because they
cannot find in their marriage or other
relationship what they need in fantasy,
although the relationship may be very
successful otherwise. I know from much
experience that what I do can be
immensely helpful and wholly beneficial
for them. I know when I have succeeded
because they continue to come to me,
sometimes for many years.
* Apart from being a professional
dominatrix do you do anything else?
Yes I have my production where I create
my own fetish videos and photos.
It requires me to be a very
creative and inspiring person, especially
that I am an actress, director, copy writer
and on the top of that a dominatrix
My videos and photos are accessible
via my members website
http://www.theplatinumcage.com/
* How deep is your personal fetish for latex
clothing, because in front of the camera you
seem very satisfied with all this rubber on
your body …
I adore everything about latex except
getting into it! It makes me intensely aware
of my body, and it is tremendously sexy
without being too coarsely revealing,
although it can sometimes feel more naked
than actually being naked. I also admit to
being thrilled by knowing the effect that it
has on other people – but then I am an
exhibitionist whether dressed in latex,
leather or any other attractive clothing …
* How can one contact you to arrange a meeting?
The best way is to read my website first and then
call me
http://www.mistressalexia.com/