Being a submissive girl… not really!

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, BDSM For Beginners, Featured Articles, Psychology & BDSM on June 24, 2011 | 4 Comments For a few months I had been delighted discovering my new self, the Dominatrix side of me.  I never had any doubts as to whether I was a Dom or a Sub but I was incredibly curious to see life from a sub’s perspective.  There was also the fact that I had read so many times that to be a good Mistress you really need to be empathetic, know your subs and understand their motivations.  This is how I came to think that the best way to understand a sub was to be one.   When I talked about it to Joanna, she agreed with me and had the great idea of introducing me to Master Alan, a very good friend of...

Summary of my weekend lessons with Mistress Lark, my Fetish Therapist.

Posted by JL in My Slaves, Psychology & BDSM on March 1, 2011 | 6 Comments   1) I learned that is not enough to “wanna be” something, you need to let your wish to take you and go ahead. 2) I learned that is not enough to learn something, you need to like to do it, for you could be good on it. 3) I learned that the floor of the house of Mistress Lark is not a bad place to sleep. 4) I learned that Mistress Lark is a Dominant Mistress and a natural team leader. 5) I learned that even to be a sub you need to have a healthy mind. 6) I learned that is not enough make a lot of miles to realize your fantasies if your life is a nightmare and you are lost. 7) I learned that...

24/7 Perfect Slave – Thoughts From Overseas…

Posted by JL in Dominatrixes With Attitude, From Overseas, My Slaves, Psychology & BDSM on October 26, 2010 | No Comments I popped recently into interesting post about perfect full time slave. It seems that me and Mistress Milliscent share very similar view on how the servitude should look: “I think that a slave’s time should be kept full. A slave living with me could expect to have his or her days filled with work for me. Not meaningless works like scrubbing a bathroom with a toothbrush, while such work might be delightful, it isn’t really work, and would be a reward for a slave not a service to his or her owner. Meaningful work is what I would expect, work that improved my life and my household. Not...

Letter From One Of My Slaves After The Night At Club Subversion

Posted by JL in Featured Articles, Fetish Clubs, My Slaves, Psychology & BDSM, Reports From London Fetish Life on October 16, 2010 | 2 Comments Hello Mistress Joanna Lark I just wanted to say thank you for allowing me to serve you and your friend Mistress Anath at Club Subversion last night. I hope you both had a good time and that i was of some use to both of you. Although i have been going occasionally to fet clubs for a while i am still a bit ‘wet behind the ears’ when it comes to being a sub. i really appreciate your time and the efforts you made last night to make me a better slave. I can be quite erratic especially in clubs which is why I almost need a Mistress to keep me in check! I learnt a bit more about myself...

To kink or not to kink?

Posted by JL in Psychology & BDSM on March 6, 2010 | No Comments Well – it depends where you are based. If you go to Denmark, Sweden and now even to Norway you can enjoy kinky lifestyle without a fear of being taken to the mental care. You can even act like a kinky idiot from the Lars von Trier drama. Do you know why? Read more about  Ms Slide’s latest...