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The London Munch: For Love Or Money?

When Joanna Lark invited me to go with her to the London Munch back in January 2010, as usual I did not know what to expect. Joanna likes to surprise me, to entice me into her fetish world, so she doesn’t really tell me much about our outings; she lets me discover her world by myself. So far I have never been disappointed, so as usual with any of Joanna’s invitations, I was besides myself with excitement and expectation towards this new experience. The evening started early when at 7 o’clock my new wannabe slave “memoire de poisson” arrived at the door ready to drive me to the Munch venue....

Goddess Alexia Reveals Her Secrets To Marquis Magazine

As promised earlier, I will be revealing slowly the gorgeous silhouette and fascinating personality of one of my favourite London Dominatrixes – Goddess Alexia. I remember we met for the first time 2 years ago at the Xpo 2008, and we liked each other straight away. She also is an exhibitionist like me  and we share quite similar attitiude towards Female Domination. Here is the first interview with her, specially for Marquis Magazine. *  Alexia – you describe yourself as a Goddess. Please explain: what is the difference between a Mistress and a Goddess for you? Why you are so unique? A...

Kindergarten For Slaves At The Fetish Club

I am having so many enquiries from newbies asking me: “Mistress, I would love to come to the Club Pedestal but -         have no courage -         have never been to the fetish club -         don’t want to come alone -         would love to keep you company but you always seem so busy”  So I decided to create a Slave’s Kindergarten for subs who are attending the club for the first time. If you are truly willing to discover the London’s fetish environment in female domination atmosphere and consider yourself as ready to stay on all fours in public, then I may...

The Humbler – Perfectly Nasty CBT Device.

I’ve met great new supplier from Holland recently. They have some BDSM products ideally complementing Ledapol’s catalogue. Can’t wait to try new implements. One of them is a humbler. Where shall I do my “initiation”? Maybe at the Pedestal this month? hmmm… The humbler is a BDSM device that consists of a wooden bar, the middle of which secures around the wearer’s ball sack and locks it in place with the security mechanism. When fitted, the bar is placed behind the sub’s legs, thus pulling his genitals backwards. If the wearer tries to stand while in the...

Ask Fetish Expert – Goddess Alexia

This blog is supposed to be your “kinky map” of the fetish and BDSM world. Alice didn’t know anything about the other side of the mirror and look how she got herself into trouble! It’s better if you avoid this. For the best results, I decided to bring on a board fetish experts. Goddess Alexia is the first one to help me, so together we can guide you and find out more about your naughty instincts. Here is the message from Goddess Alexia: ‘I have started this campaign because I receive innumerable inquiries from individuals and couples who have discovered the world of...

Do you want Fetish Wedding organised by Channel 4 absolutely FREE??

I’ve just got email from Mellisa working for Channel 4. They are looking for couples  from all walks of life from across the UK and think it would be fun to include a couple who are alternative lifestyle friendly and would like a ceremony that reflects their interests! Here is the original message: Do you want to have the wedding of your dreams without the drama?   Channel 4 are producing a new show where a top team of wedding planners, stylists and organisers will create your ideal ceremony at our ‘Wedding House’ for FREE.  All you have to do is be in love and want to get...

Club Pedestal: a new outlook on life

The day Joanna Lark invited me to Club Pedestal I couldn’t believe my luck. Joanna was proposing to take me to a club where women are adored by men, a place where women are in complete safety to explore their fantasies and men are at the service of women for whatever they might want. I couldn’t wait to see Club Pedestal I was excited but at the same time scared to go to a fetish club, I had never been to one, so I ask Becky, a friend of mine to come with me. Joanna had arranged for one of her subs to pick me up, drive me to the club and serve me as a guide. I thought it appropriate to wear one of...

If you really want to get kinky…

Do you remember my sub’s report from the photo session in Barnet Bastille Dungeon? You can still read it on my IC weblog.  It was for Aishling Morgan’s new book “Naughty!” He needed some good shoots from Female Domination scenarios, so I am glad I could be helpful and become a part of it. The book is out now, with a very saucy cover, I can’t wait to read it! The back cover makes it sounds very inviting: “It’s about pleasures that go beyond what most people are used to, not just sex, but naughty sex, the kind of sex that involves more leather than lace, more...