Regulation, Lady Gaga and a bondage gear for my boy…

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, BDSM For Beginners, Corporal Punishment, Featured Articles, JL Recommends on January 23, 2011 | No Comments It was a cold afternoon.  I picked up a long soya latte from a café and went straight into St Albans Place, Islington, looking for number 17.  By the stern outside look of the place I would have never guessed all the fun that it was hiding.  It was 4:40pm.  I was supposed to meet Joanna here at the Regulation store at 5pm; she had promised me a big surprise, something that would make me go “gaga”.  As soon as I went in, a cave of treasures opened at my feet.  At first sight the place was filled with leather masks, restraints, latex wear, cages and countless toys that I could not even start...

Alice In BDSM Land

Posted by JL in Alice In Chains, Featured Articles, My Slaves on December 4, 2010 | 1 Comment My Mistresses calls me Alice. They reckoned that was the most suitable name for me after a dream I had a few years ago; a dream that changed my life and made me realize that I was born to be a slave to my Mistress’s wishes. It happened one afternoon after a visit to the library. I was sitting on the window sill in my dorm reading a book when I saw a woman in a black military catsuit walking in the garden. I don’t know why but I opened the window and went out to follow her, trying to talk to her. She looked at me as if I didn’t exist and continued across the garden towards a garden shed I had...

Lady Gaga In Milan Wearing BDSM Harness From Joanna Lark

Posted by JL in Featured Articles, Fetish Fashion on December 4, 2010 | No Comments As usual, she went a bit over the top – but that’s her style, isn’t it? I fully understand her – I am exhibitionist myself… The spiked BDSM Harness worked - have a look what the press is saying about Lady Gaga’s entrée in...

Are You Gagging For It? Countess De Jager Tells You How To Do It…

Posted by JL in Ask Fetish Expert, BDSM For Beginners, Featured Articles, JL Recommends on November 6, 2010 | 1 Comment Are you paraphilic? The fetishizing of particular or scenarios is also referred to as paraphilia. We will be talking about different types of fetish, and there will be plenty to discuss as it is possible to fetishize virtually anything… In this article Countess De Jager introduces us to one of the most popular bondage toys – She will be discussing the play and pleasure of ‘Gags’. “You may have seen ‘Pulp Fiction’ in it there’s a scene where a man plays a ‘Gimp’ Though a ball gag was used it was not used in sexual play. I have found that a...

Introducing Passionate Dominatrix Countess De Jager

Posted by JL in BDSM For Beginners, Corporal Punishment, Dominatrixes With Attitude, Featured Articles, JL Recommends, Reports From London Fetish Life on October 28, 2010 | 3 Comments Well – I am not sure if  I need to introduce Countess De Jager anymore – as she has become one of the icons of London Fetish Life… But for those who haven’t met her yet – beware: “To the cognoscenti I’m known by the title ‘Countess De Jager’. It is pronounced ‘dee-are-sher’ as the ‘j’ is silent.  I don’t like to be called ‘Mistress’. To me, a mistress is a woman who’s having an affair with another woman’s hus­band. I’m a Dominatrix. My title goes back to 16th century France. During the revolution, royal families were taken into the...

Letter From One Of My Slaves After The Night At Club Subversion

Posted by JL in Featured Articles, Fetish Clubs, My Slaves, Psychology & BDSM, Reports From London Fetish Life on October 16, 2010 | 2 Comments Hello Mistress Joanna Lark I just wanted to say thank you for allowing me to serve you and your friend Mistress Anath at Club Subversion last night. I hope you both had a good time and that i was of some use to both of you. Although i have been going occasionally to fet clubs for a while i am still a bit ‘wet behind the ears’ when it comes to being a sub. i really appreciate your time and the efforts you made last night to make me a better slave. I can be quite erratic especially in clubs which is why I almost need a Mistress to keep me in check! I learnt a bit more about myself...

Discovering The Art Of Domination With Goddess Alexia

Posted by JL in Ask Fetish Expert, Dominatrixes With Attitude, Featured Articles on September 7, 2010 | No Comments Very often Goddess Alexia is faced with the same questions about Domination: why, when, where and what for?  In the past few years she has given much thought to these questions.  I invite you to enter Goddess Alexia’s fantasy world, a world which in her tantalizingly husky voice she entices you to enter.  A world that she reveals to you and through which she guides you, so that under her spell you lose yourself and experience a voyage of discovery towards new and deeper ways of pleasure. Come with me and discover a fascinating Woman, a Mistress out of the ordinary, a real Dominatrix and...

Strip Off And Strap-On

Posted by JL in BDSM For Beginners, Featured Articles on August 13, 2010 | 3 Comments Have I mentioned Filament magazine yet? The quarterly women’s magazine inspired by the rocket science that women have brains and eyes. I read it sometimes, especially that I concider myself having both. And some time ago my attention cought this article: “A beginner’s guide to pegging”   In 2001 Dan Savage, irreverent sex and relationships advice columnist from Seattle’s The Stranger, ran a competition to name the sexual practice where a woman anally penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo. Other front-runners included bobbing and punting, but it was pegging that crossed the...

Training With Miss Anath

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, Featured Articles on May 24, 2010 | 3 Comments During the night at Club Pedestal I met lots of new people, all of them nice and interesting.  I never imagined that I would meet lawyers, surgeons and many other serious professionals in a femdom club.  It was a turn-on to know that these men who were serving and adoring me, were men used to giving orders and being boss all week.  Just before I left the club, one of them, who I had taken to be my new slave for the night after I whipped him and used him as an astray, gave me his phone number and details requesting to be my personal slave and servant. The day after Club Pedestal I was reading a book...

Ask Fetish Expert – Goddess Alexia

Posted by JL in Ask Fetish Expert, Featured Articles, JL Recommends on April 19, 2010 | No Comments This blog is supposed to be your “kinky map” of the fetish and BDSM world. Alice didn’t know anything about the other side of the mirror and look how she got herself into trouble! It’s better if you avoid this. For the best results, I decided to bring on a board fetish experts. Goddess Alexia is the first one to help me, so together we can guide you and find out more about your naughty instincts. Here is the message from Goddess Alexia: ‘I have started this campaign because I receive innumerable inquiries from individuals and couples who have discovered the world of...