Bondage Safety Tips by Mistress Anath

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, Ask Fetish Expert, BDSM For Beginners, BDSM in Japan on January 23, 2012 | No Comments  I am new to bondage but like most people familiar with rope bondage I am still shocked at recent news about someone being killed during a bondage session.   As I said, I am new to it, but the first thing I learned about bondage sessions and fetish games in general was safety rules to keep both myself and my play partners safe while having fun.  I had my first bondage experience at the Boat Party in London in 2010.  I had seen shibari before several times and I had always been fascinated by it.  I had come to see Shibari as a type of art where the person doing the ropes is the artist creating a...

London Alternative Market

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, BDSM For Beginners, Featured Articles, Fetish Fashion, JL Recommends, Reports From London Fetish Life on September 12, 2011 | No Comments The London Alternative Market held the first Sunday of every month is certainly an event not to be missed.  Like most new discoveries on the London fetish scene, I discovered the LAM with Joanna Lark.  That morning we were feeling high, ready to dress to impress, so as soon as we got up and had a pampering bath we put on our PVC catsuits and matching Dominatrix hats.  As usual, we caused a stir when we arrived wearing our shiny, PVC catsuits hugging our curves and feeling like lubed rubber.  The market was spread over two floors of uncensored naughtiness and kink. Joanna knew almost everyone in...

Being a submissive girl… not really!

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, BDSM For Beginners, Featured Articles, Psychology & BDSM on June 24, 2011 | 4 Comments For a few months I had been delighted discovering my new self, the Dominatrix side of me.  I never had any doubts as to whether I was a Dom or a Sub but I was incredibly curious to see life from a sub’s perspective.  There was also the fact that I had read so many times that to be a good Mistress you really need to be empathetic, know your subs and understand their motivations.  This is how I came to think that the best way to understand a sub was to be one.   When I talked about it to Joanna, she agreed with me and had the great idea of introducing me to Master Alan, a very good friend of...

Lloyds Bank Supporting Femdom

Posted by JL in BDSM For Beginners, Featured Articles on March 30, 2011 | 4 Comments Forniphilia (source: “Fetish” by David Bramwell) is a form of sexual objectification in which the dom/domme turns his or her slave into a piece of “human furniture”. Most common are human tables, chairs, hat stands, lampshades and as Lloyds suggests – footstools Mainstream sourced example of "human...

Pathetic Slave Worshipping Mistress Joanna Lark On Her Roof Dungeon

Posted by JL in BDSM For Beginners, Dominatrixes With Attitude, Featured Articles, My Slaves on February 20, 2011 | 6 Comments In this new video annoyed Mistress Joanna Lark decides to punish her slave with some very painful face sitting. Mistress is wearing her favourite Dominatrix hat, boots, leather playsuit and spiked BDSM harness which she is planning to use in very interesting way… The harness was also worn by Lady Gaga during her shopping in Milan last December. The slave is wearing pink lacy panties… and remember, it’s very windy on JL’s roof dungeon this time of the...

Regulation, Lady Gaga and a bondage gear for my boy…

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, BDSM For Beginners, Corporal Punishment, Featured Articles, JL Recommends on January 23, 2011 | No Comments It was a cold afternoon.  I picked up a long soya latte from a café and went straight into St Albans Place, Islington, looking for number 17.  By the stern outside look of the place I would have never guessed all the fun that it was hiding.  It was 4:40pm.  I was supposed to meet Joanna here at the Regulation store at 5pm; she had promised me a big surprise, something that would make me go “gaga”.  As soon as I went in, a cave of treasures opened at my feet.  At first sight the place was filled with leather masks, restraints, latex wear, cages and countless toys that I could not even start...

Are You Gagging For It? Countess De Jager Tells You How To Do It…

Posted by JL in Ask Fetish Expert, BDSM For Beginners, Featured Articles, JL Recommends on November 6, 2010 | 1 Comment Are you paraphilic? The fetishizing of particular or scenarios is also referred to as paraphilia. We will be talking about different types of fetish, and there will be plenty to discuss as it is possible to fetishize virtually anything… In this article Countess De Jager introduces us to one of the most popular bondage toys – She will be discussing the play and pleasure of ‘Gags’. “You may have seen ‘Pulp Fiction’ in it there’s a scene where a man plays a ‘Gimp’ Though a ball gag was used it was not used in sexual play. I have found that a...

Subversion Celebrates 6th Birthday This Saturday!

Posted by JL in BDSM For Beginners, Fetish Clubs, JL Recommends, Reports From London Fetish Life on November 4, 2010 | 1 Comment My birthday is on 5th of November - tomorrow (you all should know for who are the fireworks all over the country), and Club Subversion celebrates it’s 6th birthday on Saturday – what a special weekend! Even more reasons to get your gear out, polish the boots, lace up your corset really tight and celebrate! Reveal your devilish side… So if you haven’t heard about this club yet, dedicated to the pursuit of kinky pleasure in all it’s form –  this is the best moment to explore it… It will be even more fun than normally. And the regular kinksters know already,...

Introducing Passionate Dominatrix Countess De Jager

Posted by JL in BDSM For Beginners, Corporal Punishment, Dominatrixes With Attitude, Featured Articles, JL Recommends, Reports From London Fetish Life on October 28, 2010 | 3 Comments Well – I am not sure if  I need to introduce Countess De Jager anymore – as she has become one of the icons of London Fetish Life… But for those who haven’t met her yet – beware: “To the cognoscenti I’m known by the title ‘Countess De Jager’. It is pronounced ‘dee-are-sher’ as the ‘j’ is silent.  I don’t like to be called ‘Mistress’. To me, a mistress is a woman who’s having an affair with another woman’s hus­band. I’m a Dominatrix. My title goes back to 16th century France. During the revolution, royal families were taken into the...

The Art Of Domination With Goddess Alexia – part II

Posted by JL in Ask Fetish Expert, BDSM For Beginners, Dominatrixes With Attitude, JL Recommends on October 19, 2010 | No Comments Creating a fantasy world has a lot to do with imagination and mind games, but there is also the practical aspect of   creating a place in which to be worshipped and adored by your followers. Goddess Alexia knows the importance of this and now opens the doors of her private chambers to give you a glimpse of her Fantasy World. We are all very curious about Goddess Alexia’s dungeon. Could you give us a glimpse of your dungeon and Fantasy World? I have private premises for sessions in London. They are exclusively for my own use. I have created aspecial space specifically designed for Goddess Worship,...