Bondage Safety Tips by Mistress Anath

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, Ask Fetish Expert, BDSM For Beginners, BDSM in Japan on January 23, 2012 | No Comments  I am new to bondage but like most people familiar with rope bondage I am still shocked at recent news about someone being killed during a bondage session.   As I said, I am new to it, but the first thing I learned about bondage sessions and fetish games in general was safety rules to keep both myself and my play partners safe while having fun.  I had my first bondage experience at the Boat Party in London in 2010.  I had seen shibari before several times and I had always been fascinated by it.  I had come to see Shibari as a type of art where the person doing the ropes is the artist creating a...

London Alternative Market

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, BDSM For Beginners, Featured Articles, Fetish Fashion, JL Recommends, Reports From London Fetish Life on September 12, 2011 | No Comments The London Alternative Market held the first Sunday of every month is certainly an event not to be missed.  Like most new discoveries on the London fetish scene, I discovered the LAM with Joanna Lark.  That morning we were feeling high, ready to dress to impress, so as soon as we got up and had a pampering bath we put on our PVC catsuits and matching Dominatrix hats.  As usual, we caused a stir when we arrived wearing our shiny, PVC catsuits hugging our curves and feeling like lubed rubber.  The market was spread over two floors of uncensored naughtiness and kink. Joanna knew almost everyone in...

The Boat Party And Anath’s First Rope Bondage Experience

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, Featured Articles, JL Recommends, Reports From London Fetish Life on June 27, 2011 | 6 Comments It was already 7pm and I had not finished dressing up for The Boat Party.  Master Alan, my companion for the night was ready, waiting for me, wearing black leather trousers and a black shirt buttoned up to the top and finished with a tie-like chain with handcuffs and spiky wrist bands.  I had decided to wear once again my red military catsuit.  What can I say… I just love that PVC catsuit and it is so comfortable to wear that sometimes I feel like I am wearing nothing at all! It was almost 8pm now and we knew we were late. We had already done two tours of the London Bridge trying to find the...

Being a submissive girl… not really!

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, BDSM For Beginners, Featured Articles, Psychology & BDSM on June 24, 2011 | 4 Comments For a few months I had been delighted discovering my new self, the Dominatrix side of me.  I never had any doubts as to whether I was a Dom or a Sub but I was incredibly curious to see life from a sub’s perspective.  There was also the fact that I had read so many times that to be a good Mistress you really need to be empathetic, know your subs and understand their motivations.  This is how I came to think that the best way to understand a sub was to be one.   When I talked about it to Joanna, she agreed with me and had the great idea of introducing me to Master Alan, a very good friend of...

Torture Garden Explored

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, Featured Articles, Fetish Clubs, JL Recommends, Reports From London Fetish Life on May 5, 2011 | 16 Comments From the very first day I entered the London fetish scene one place always made an echo at every night out I had: “Torture Garden”.   Somehow I had imagined Torture Garden as a big outdoor party with women dancing in veils, candles and incense everywhere, fountains with nymphs happily dancing to the music played by their satyrs.  Whips and chains delightfully placed and gracefully used were also part of my Torture Garden imaginings.  For some reason everyone I met asked me if I had already been at one of the TG parties.  It seemed that you could not seriously be in the fetish scene if you...

Pink Panther – how to get the most out of your sub…

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, My Slaves on March 20, 2011 | 6 Comments The day of the Torture Garden’s birthday party, Joanna and I met early to get ready for our big night out.  As usual, Joanna had prepared a surprise for me, a relaxing afternoon at her spa centre.  What she didn’t know was that I had a surprise for her too.  I had brought with me my new French slave who I called pink panther as he reminded me of Inspector Jacques Clouseau. When I arrived at Joanna’s place with pink panther he was wearing a bondage harness in leather under his pink jumper.  He was really grateful to be allowed to come out of France to meet Mistress Joanna Lark so he was...

Regulation, Lady Gaga and a bondage gear for my boy…

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, BDSM For Beginners, Corporal Punishment, Featured Articles, JL Recommends on January 23, 2011 | No Comments It was a cold afternoon.  I picked up a long soya latte from a café and went straight into St Albans Place, Islington, looking for number 17.  By the stern outside look of the place I would have never guessed all the fun that it was hiding.  It was 4:40pm.  I was supposed to meet Joanna here at the Regulation store at 5pm; she had promised me a big surprise, something that would make me go “gaga”.  As soon as I went in, a cave of treasures opened at my feet.  At first sight the place was filled with leather masks, restraints, latex wear, cages and countless toys that I could not even start...

Swinging Party And My First Strap-On

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures on July 22, 2010 | 3 Comments Shortly after my introduction to the London fetish scene I attended a swinger’s party.  I had spent the night with some new friends at a private party and it just seemed natural to continue the party somewhere else, so I accepted going to the after party.  As soon as I crossed the door I realized this was no ordinary party.  The ambiance was so relaxed with people lying down drinking and talking on the sofas, couples kissing and caressing on tables and any other piece of furniture they could find available.  There were two bedrooms, both of them with King size beds with a tangle of arms and...

The London Munch: For Love Or Money?

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, BDSM For Beginners, JL Recommends, Reports From London Fetish Life on July 21, 2010 | No Comments When Joanna Lark invited me to go with her to the London Munch back in January 2010, as usual I did not know what to expect. Joanna likes to surprise me, to entice me into her fetish world, so she doesn’t really tell me much about our outings; she lets me discover her world by myself. So far I have never been disappointed, so as usual with any of Joanna’s invitations, I was besides myself with excitement and expectation towards this new experience. The evening started early when at 7 o’clock my new wannabe slave “memoire de poisson” arrived at the door ready to drive me to the Munch venue....

Training With Miss Anath

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, Featured Articles on May 24, 2010 | 3 Comments During the night at Club Pedestal I met lots of new people, all of them nice and interesting.  I never imagined that I would meet lawyers, surgeons and many other serious professionals in a femdom club.  It was a turn-on to know that these men who were serving and adoring me, were men used to giving orders and being boss all week.  Just before I left the club, one of them, who I had taken to be my new slave for the night after I whipped him and used him as an astray, gave me his phone number and details requesting to be my personal slave and servant. The day after Club Pedestal I was reading a book...