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Finding a good competent slave is never easy. Everybody wants to serve; all those insignificant beings approaching us to be at our feet want to be our slaves. They all want to be dominated, used and abused by a beautiful Mistress. Unfortunately, most of them are not of any use. How many times have I encountered subs who cannot even clean my boots properly? How many times have I dismissed subs for being cheeky or wanting to top from the bottom? So many times that I cannot even count them or indeed remember them. This is why Joanna had the idea of having a slave competition before...
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I am new to bondage but like most people familiar with rope bondage I am still shocked at recent news about someone being killed during a bondage session. As I said, I am new to it, but the first thing I learned about bondage sessions and fetish games in general was safety rules to keep both myself and my play partners safe while having fun.
I had my first bondage experience at the Boat Party in London in 2010. I had seen shibari before several times and I had always been fascinated by it. I had come to see Shibari as a type of art where the person doing the ropes is the artist...
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What’s interesting for fetish enthusiast in fashion this autumn?
The Military Cap
This hat is a fighter: it’s hard as nails in all senses of the word. Wrap yourself in an electric pink coat, topped off with a peaked cap and no one is going to mess with you. This is a hat with attitude!
Moschino's interpretation
Marc Jacobs, in arch provocateur mode, exploring and exploding the meaning of fetishes.
Disciplined is one word for this season’s LV collection; kink is another, but more on that in a minute. First, the silhouette: If the sculpted jackets, blouses that buttoned up...
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September 12, 2011 |
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The London Alternative Market held the first Sunday of every month is certainly an event not to be missed. Like most new discoveries on the London fetish scene, I discovered the LAM with Joanna Lark. That morning we were feeling high, ready to dress to impress, so as soon as we got up and had a pampering bath we put on our PVC catsuits and matching Dominatrix hats. As usual, we caused a stir when we arrived wearing our shiny, PVC catsuits hugging our curves and feeling like lubed rubber.
The market was spread over two floors of uncensored naughtiness and kink. Joanna knew almost everyone...
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August 3, 2011 |
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i had the honour of being Joanna’s slave at Pedestal and that is a night hard to forget. Since i am not into (much) pain i am sure i got more out of it than She did, but i hope She had a great night at Pedestal too. There were other slaves for Her to beat and torture so She could play as much as She wanted without making me suffer physically. My place was at Her feet and that was the best place i could ever hope for.
The feeling of being a little useless slave combined with the proudness of being the slave of the most beautiful Woman in the Club was sensational.
What surprised me most at...
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It was already 7pm and I had not finished dressing up for The Boat Party. Master Alan, my companion for the night was ready, waiting for me, wearing black leather trousers and a black shirt buttoned up to the top and finished with a tie-like chain with handcuffs and spiky wrist bands. I had decided to wear once again my red military catsuit. What can I say… I just love that PVC catsuit and it is so comfortable to wear that sometimes I feel like I am wearing nothing at all!
It was almost 8pm now and we knew we were late. We had already done two tours of the London Bridge trying to find...
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June 24, 2011 |
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For a few months I had been delighted discovering my new self, the Dominatrix side of me. I never had any doubts as to whether I was a Dom or a Sub but I was incredibly curious to see life from a sub’s perspective. There was also the fact that I had read so many times that to be a good Mistress you really need to be empathetic, know your subs and understand their motivations. This is how I came to think that the best way to understand a sub was to be one. When I talked about it to Joanna, she agreed with me and had the great idea of introducing me to Master Alan, a very good friend of...
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I found here interesting theory, which Bob Kane used to create “Batman’s characters. And for some reason it matches the Femdom distinction between catsuits and collars. See what he says:
As for using cat imagery with their Catwoman, Kane states he and Finger saw cats as “kind of the antithesis of bats”
“I felt that women were feline creatures and men were more like dogs. While dogs are faithful and friendly, cats are cool, detached, and unreliable. I felt much warmer with dogs around me—cats are as hard to understand as women are. Men feel more sure of themselves with a...
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From the very first day I entered the London fetish scene one place always made an echo at every night out I had: “Torture Garden”.
Somehow I had imagined Torture Garden as a big outdoor party with women dancing in veils, candles and incense everywhere, fountains with nymphs happily dancing to the music played by their satyrs. Whips and chains delightfully placed and gracefully used were also part of my Torture Garden imaginings.
For some reason everyone I met asked me if I had already been at one of the TG parties. It seemed that you could not seriously be in the fetish scene if you...
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Recently The English Mansion invited me to the Femdom Ball held on Thursday the 26th May 2011 from 1pm – 9pm.
It sounds interesting – submissive male guests will spend the afternoon and early evening, in the company of Mistress Sidonia von Bork and over thirty elite Dominatrixes from around the world.
On arrival there will be a strict adherence to sub/dom roles and a number of femdom orientated events are planned throughout the afternoon, such as the Wheel of Misfortune and a Slave Auction.
There are a number of play areas available and established Mistresses will be running various...
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