Strip Off And Strap-On

Posted by JL in BDSM For Beginners, Featured Articles on August 13, 2010 | 2 Comments Have I mentioned Filament magazine yet? The quarterly women’s magazine inspired by the rocket science that women have brains and eyes. I read it sometimes, especially that I concider myself having both. And some time ago my attention cought this article: “A beginner’s guide to pegging”   In 2001 Dan Savage, irreverent sex and relationships advice columnist from Seattle’s The Stranger, ran a competition to name the sexual practice where a woman anally penetrates a man with a strap-on dildo. Other front-runners included bobbing and punting, but it was pegging that crossed the...

Swinging Party And My First Strap-On

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures on July 22, 2010 | 3 Comments Shortly after my introduction to the London fetish scene I attended a swinger’s party.  I had spent the night with some new friends at a private party and it just seemed natural to continue the party somewhere else, so I accepted going to the after party.  As soon as I crossed the door I realized this was no ordinary party.  The ambiance was so relaxed with people lying down drinking and talking on the sofas, couples kissing and caressing on tables and any other piece of furniture they could find available.  There were two bedrooms, both of them with King size beds with a tangle of arms and legs,...

The London Munch: For Love Or Money?

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, BDSM For Beginners, JL Recommends, Reports From London Fetish Life on July 21, 2010 | No Comments When Joanna Lark invited me to go with her to the London Munch back in January 2010, as usual I did not know what to expect. Joanna likes to surprise me, to entice me into her fetish world, so she doesn’t really tell me much about our outings; she lets me discover her world by myself. So far I have never been disappointed, so as usual with any of Joanna’s invitations, I was besides myself with excitement and expectation towards this new experience. The evening started early when at 7 o’clock my new wannabe slave “memoire de poisson” arrived at the door ready to drive me to the Munch venue....

Training With Miss Anath

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, Featured Articles on May 24, 2010 | 3 Comments During the night at Club Pedestal I met lots of new people, all of them nice and interesting.  I never imagined that I would meet lawyers, surgeons and many other serious professionals in a femdom club.  It was a turn-on to know that these men who were serving and adoring me, were men used to giving orders and being boss all week.  Just before I left the club, one of them, who I had taken to be my new slave for the night after I whipped him and used him as an astray, gave me his phone number and details requesting to be my personal slave and servant. The day after Club Pedestal I was reading a book...

Goddess Alexia Reveals Her Secrets To Marquis Magazine

Posted by JL in Ask Fetish Expert, Dominatrixes With Attitude, JL Recommends on May 19, 2010 | No Comments As promised earlier, I will be revealing slowly the gorgeous silhouette and fascinating personality of one of my favourite London Dominatrixes – Goddess Alexia. I remember we met for the first time 2 years ago at the Xpo 2008, and we liked each other straight away. She also is an exhibitionist like me  and we share quite similar attitiude towards Female Domination. Here is the first interview with her, specially for Marquis Magazine. *  Alexia – you describe yourself as a Goddess. Please explain: what is the difference between a Mistress and a Goddess for you? Why you are so unique? A...

Kindergarten For Slaves At The Fetish Club

Posted by JL in BDSM For Beginners, JL Recommends on May 15, 2010 | No Comments I am having so many enquiries from newbies asking me: “Mistress, I would love to come to the Club Pedestal but -         have no courage -         have never been to the fetish club -         don’t want to come alone -         would love to keep you company but you always seem so busy”  So I decided to create a Slave’s Kindergarten for subs who are attending the club for the first time. If you are truly willing to discover the London’s fetish environment in female domination atmosphere and consider yourself as ready to stay on all fours in public, then I may...

The Humbler – Perfectly Nasty CBT Device.

Posted by JL in Corporal Punishment, JL Recommends on May 15, 2010 | No Comments I’ve met great new supplier from Holland recently. They have some BDSM products ideally complementing Ledapol’s catalogue. Can’t wait to try new implements. One of them is a humbler. Where shall I do my “initiation”? Maybe at the Pedestal this month? hmmm… The humbler is a BDSM device that consists of a wooden bar, the middle of which secures around the wearer’s ball sack and locks it in place with the security mechanism. When fitted, the bar is placed behind the sub’s legs, thus pulling his genitals backwards. If the wearer tries to stand while in the...

Ask Fetish Expert – Goddess Alexia

Posted by JL in Ask Fetish Expert, Featured Articles, JL Recommends on April 19, 2010 | No Comments This blog is supposed to be your “kinky map” of the fetish and BDSM world. Alice didn’t know anything about the other side of the mirror and look how she got herself into trouble! It’s better if you avoid this. For the best results, I decided to bring on a board fetish experts. Goddess Alexia is the first one to help me, so together we can guide you and find out more about your naughty instincts. Here is the message from Goddess Alexia: ‘I have started this campaign because I receive innumerable inquiries from individuals and couples who have discovered the world of...

The Riding Crop

Posted by JL in Anath's Fetish Adventures, Corporal Punishment, Featured Articles on April 19, 2010 | 1 Comment The morning after Club Pedestal night I was lying in bed next to Becky.  She was looking at me, still surprised at how easily I had fitted into my new Dominatrix personality the previous night.  She was trying to understand my behaviour, the men’s behaviour and the whole dynamic of the BDSM scene.  She was bombarding me with questions.  “I don’t know” I said to her.  “I don’t try to understand, it just felt so good that I couldn’t stop myself”.  “But how can you enjoy humiliating and whipping a man? I thought you liked men” said Becky with a confused expression on her...

Do you want Fetish Wedding organised by Channel 4 absolutely FREE??

Posted by JL in Fetish Fashion, JL Recommends on March 16, 2010 | No Comments I’ve just got email from Mellisa working for Channel 4. They are looking for couples  from all walks of life from across the UK and think it would be fun to include a couple who are alternative lifestyle friendly and would like a ceremony that reflects their interests! Here is the original message: Do you want to have the wedding of your dreams without the drama?   Channel 4 are producing a new show where a top team of wedding planners, stylists and organisers will create your ideal ceremony at our ‘Wedding House’ for FREE.  All you have to do is be in love and want to get...